“What If I Told You I Had an Abortion?”

The first thing I would say is “I am sorry for your loss.” I deeply believe that abortion is a loss worth acknowledging. I’m not going to pretend to know what you have gone through and what led you to choose to abort your baby. If you’re willing to share your story with me, I would be honored to listen.  I know there is nothing I can say or do to change the decision you made, and the last thing I want is to make you feel terrible about it.